Being Busy or Being Selfish?

Never have thought I would have thought so much after watching a movie on plane. NINE just amazed me. The flow was attractive, in the sense that audience are getting into the movie and be part of it. I was first inspired by the scene when Luisa “expressed” how tired she was for years her husband had spent little time with her because Guido was “busy”. Then that scene when Luisa told Guido how disappointed she was and how desire ruined Guido’s life hammered me right at my brain. I feel so sorry for my wife and so to myself. I always have so much to do; but is that the truth or it is just an excuse for me being selfish? I just wish I can spend more of my time with her and our daughter. I miss them no doubt.